Sub Chat meeting in Second life

August 2, 2007 Sub Chat meeting in Second life
The first topic requested for discussion at the Online sub chat meeting was the addition of voice chat in Second life. Many of the subs in attendance remarked that the SL voice enable would not change there communication routine. There intimate encounters in voice verses in text tend to have different qualities that do not combine together so easily. A scene in text has far greater detail and visualization qualities where as voice chat has the immediate auditory stimulus but in the actions to inspire such sounds it is very difficult to be texting. The conversation danced around the topic eventually confirming that in reality that many people use voice to prove to them selves the identity of the partners true sex or personality. Voice might not be a proof in all situations because there is software designed to alter the sound of your voice(Voice changers). Typical situation is a woman getting a better feel for who the man is and men getting to know for sure if they are speaking to a real life female. The discussion eventually became distracted and random so I requested a response from the attendance starting with this statement. I just recently ask a Domme to take me under consideration for her collar. I would like to here some thoughts of your experiences as a sub under consideration for collaring. Some people expressed that this was an exciting time for learning and growth for the sub and the relationship. The symbolism of this phase of the relationship is a sign to other Dom/me that the sub is committed to there present relationship much like an engagement ring.. The tone of conversation was very loose and the discussion quickly wandered randomly to musings of how SL software can make a mess of a collaring ceremony. Our host eventually offered a new topic with an inquiry of how we feel about Dom/me advertisements, presumably on the internet. This was not taken too seriously and question again quickly degenerated into musings of sad examples of poor public behavior and people lacking understanding or social etiquette. My mental capacity seemed lacking this evening as I did not feel engaged on the discussions. I promptly returned home at the conclusion of the sub meeting.